I think it's more frustration over situations liek the bcnm, or this...
Today I was exp'ing in sky, we pulled an IT++ golem... suddenly, the pld stops voking, the war/nin stops using utsusemi, the war/thf (don't ask) stops using Sneak attack/trick attack, the rdm stops refreshing.... and the blm and I are still oblivious cause we are still doing stuff.
Suddenly, the pld, rdm and war/thf disappear! ... the blm and I go "at least hte war/nin is still here.... and we panic a lil as he disappears and myself and the blm bounce hate trying to stay alove. The golem resists sleepgaII and sleepga. he gets down to 8 HP, the golem on me then, as I'm down to 300 hp before elemental seal and sleep it... we both hope to log out before the golem wakes up.
Am I saying SE should burn to the ground? nope, just that it happened twice in the exp pt.. the 2nd time the war/nin and rdm stayed with me(it was almost dead though). People are frustrated, so tehy vent. End of story. ^^