I was thinkin about stepping up my WHM/DNC power before bugging friends to do dynamis XP trials with me, what do y'all think would be the primary upgrades to make?
Khthonios Mask/x/Ethereal Earring/Novia
x/Goading Belt/Rubeus Spats/Savateur's Gaiters
Orison Cap +2/Flame Gorget/Brutal Earring/Ethereal Earring
Heka's Kalasiris/Healer's Mitts +1/Aquasoul/Aquasoul
x/Light Belt/Rubeus Spats/Orsn. Duckbills +2
First things first: Get a main-hand club. WHM/DNC has dual wield, so ditch that shield. KC is a great off-hand weapon but base damage is too low to effectively single-wield. Get something with a nice high base damage.
Also get rid of Brutal Earring in your Realm build. If you dual wield, Realm's 7 hits become 8, and 8 is the max number of hits for a WS. You literally cannot swing more than that.
Those are the only two glaring problems I see.