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#1 Oct 19 2005 at 7:44 PM Rating: Good
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I finally got the courage up and asked the girl. Here is what she said, verbatim:

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Wow, thank you for the compliments. I'm very flattered, but I'm just not interested in you like that. You're a really cool person and I still wanna be friends.


I thought I'd be bugged by it, but I'm not. I'm sorta relieved right now...

I've always compared dating to a Rubik's Cube, but now I'm thinking of something completely different...

Dating is like a big Gyro-Drop. You spend a long time getting up to where you want, nervous as hell that you're about to drop and that you're about to lose the girl... Then you do, but its not as bad as what you thought, and its over before it started.



At least I tried.

And if you don't get why I see this loss as a victory...

Try it yourself and see ;)
#2 Oct 19 2005 at 8:12 PM Rating: Decent
sounds like you lost the battle but won the war. sucks you got shot down and **** but that's what happens sometimes XD
#3 Oct 19 2005 at 8:33 PM Rating: Decent
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At least you can be positive.

Never had to deal with that personally.

I guess at least you tried.

You just analyze it way to much.

#4 Oct 20 2005 at 3:40 AM Rating: Decent
yea way to much looking into it. just sit back and do your thing, let dem ho's come to you man :)

p.s. get them drunk ^^ makes the battle almost effortless haha
#5 Oct 20 2005 at 5:16 AM Rating: Default
you got big cahones my friend
#6 Oct 20 2005 at 8:56 AM Rating: Decent
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hey shao, np here. Don't let this get you down. just find someone else. There are plenty of girls out there. i do not suggest you go the "just be friends" route unless your totally over her.

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Wow, thank you for the compliments. I'm very flattered, but I'm just not interested in you like that. You're a really cool person and I still wanna be friends.


lmao, you were to nice,

don't be that guy in the PG-13 movie that everyone hopes makes it in the end. Be that guy in the R rated movie that your not sure if you like yet. - T-Money
#7 Oct 20 2005 at 9:21 AM Rating: Decent
Move along folks nothing to see here...
#8 Oct 20 2005 at 11:03 AM Rating: Decent
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Good job on asking her man. Thats step #1, and i applaud you for at least trying. Like someone else said, you lost the battle, but won the war. The next time it should be half as hard, and eventually, it will even be easy.

/props


#9 Oct 20 2005 at 1:43 PM Rating: Decent
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Sucks that it didn't work out, but hey, at least you know now that "no" is the worst that can happen. Trust me, from here on out it gets easier every time. Hell, I've found that even for a guy as fat and ugly as myself the average is still about 20%. Sure, I get shot down alot, but all I need to do is meet 5 cool chicas and I have should have a good shot with 1 at least.

Good luck, and just keep at it, you'll find a girl in time. ;)





-Beanz
#10 Oct 20 2005 at 1:47 PM Rating: Excellent
My gf get's mad when I try and ask other girls out >.>

Better luck next time Shaolinz. Girls are so mysterious^_^
#11 Oct 20 2005 at 1:56 PM Rating: Decent
Don't worry women get rejected also. Ask the...

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#12 Oct 20 2005 at 3:52 PM Rating: Decent
awww {/comfort}Shao

Its ok man. If you really like her then just keep trying, maybe one day she will change her mind ^_^
#13 Oct 20 2005 at 8:17 PM Rating: Default
She can still be called for a "Booty Call" though, right? if not you ****** up son!
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