I find it humorous the group that so easily preaches an honor code from HNMLS has so little to do with the actual HNM scene. Though its easy to preach your moral code, when you don't hear of any small storys like say me helping nano kill xoltol while i have 4 bst's talking **** to me and blocking my screen with their pets. All preaching some 'steal' on a Tiamat.
To be honest, I wasn't there at all the listed 'incidents' you so call as steals. But it seems every group that can't finish off the big bird and refuses to give up, gets a nudge from the first group ready to go in.
As for letting a mob regen to 100%, just a waste of time in my perspective, it buys you more time to waste since you'll still hold some kind of claim to fight the mob even though its HP is regening by leaps and bounds. Keeping in mind that taking the kill saves 1-5 hours based on the group killing.
but sorry to derail from the actual thread.