I wasn't going to reply at first but after reading all 4 pages, I let out a great sigh and thought 'f*** the karma, some things are more important'.
Refresh. At the cost of 40MP, gives back 150MP over 3 minutes. This means that effectively you can set up a cycle of 3 Refreshes with a gain of 30MP for the Red Mage. 4 would earn you a loss of 10 MP, but that's like what, 1 tic of rest? 5 could be a slight problem, but stretching the Convert timers can counteract that. Incidentally, as RDM/SMN, I get 4/tic, amounting to 200MP. Which means I can keep 5 Refreshes perfectly.
While it may not be a loss, when you add whatever else we need to be doing, Magic Bursting, Dispelling, Curing (Spiders and Sickle Slash >_<), and of course Debuffing, it often amounts to a loss of about say, 150 to 225MP (In extreme cases). At level 50 I have around 420MP. Hume Male, more concerned with INT and MND.
This isn't a problem as I can rest between mobs. But being bugged for Refresh when I need my MP to stay in the game (not literally), especially when it is already on, is incredibly annoying.
The correct way to ask (don't I sound posh ;D), unless you're JP, when I can understand use of the Auto-Translator, is the way the BRD did in my last great party when he had little MP after helping out the WHM (yes, BRD + RDM + WHM works. Ballad + Auto-Refresh + Refresh 5MP/tic ^^ Plus I got an INT song too.): 'Can I get a Refresh when you have the time?'
To the subject of BLM needing Refresh: Yes. Yes, they do. My usual cycle:
RDM (me) --> PLD --> WHM --> (BLM and SMN occupy this spot, their priority in the list changes around a lot depending on whether we (the party) are MBing with AM, or absorbing AoEs with group Blink/Stoneskin, or whatever.) --> DRK
As you can see, I do somewhat value BLMs, but if I have no Refresh how can I tell when it wears off, or even have the MP to Refresh others? If the PLD can't keep hate because they have no MP, or dies because they can't cure themselves, we're all screwed (most of the time anyways). If the WHM has no MP, the tank dies, see consequences above. If the BLM has no MP, it might go anywhere from taking longer to kill the mob, to getting killed by the mob because we didn't kill it fast enough and it AoE'd us or something. If the DRK has no MP they can't absorb things. Whee.
As for our sole purpose being to Refresh, go try to kill things that buff themselves continuously, especially RDM, WHM or BLM Antica. Then come back. Enfeebling would also help in this situation. (Incidentally, do mobs cast Erase on themselves? I've never seen it happen...)
Teleports and Warp II. If I get either one, I always Refresh the caster, as a token of good will if nothing else.
One last thing...
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I wouldn't beg for Refresh, if you didn't suck at your job.
RDM are very busy at times. Please don't whine because you MAYBE have to go 10 seconds without your Magi-Crack. kthxdie.
Rant over. I feel better now. Continue.
(If I misquoted something, or provided false info, please point it out. >_<)